Men, if you girlfriend or wife hits you, degrades you, pressures you into sex, intentionally shames and humiliates you, or cheats on you, you are the victim and you are in an unhealthy relationship. She is not treating you right, it’s not okay, and you do deserve better.
I’m just gonna reblog this again because it’s one of my favorite pictures ever.
That girl in the chair seems like such a badass I bet she was the leader of the crew.
I want to write about these girls.
When I was a teenager my mother found my grandmother’s (her mother) school scrapbook. It included things like photos, notes, and a two page spread of every demerit she ever received over the course of her formal education. Each of them set aside with little tags like she was so fucking proud of them. They were all for things like, “Unladylike behavior” or, “Skirt too short” or, “refuses to listen to authority”. I loved that spread so much.
Gordon Ramsay: calls people ‘darling’ and ‘sweetheart’ as it tends to be used as a friendly term in the UK and he only ever uses it in the friendly way
Gremlins: hes a mysoginist he doesn’t respect women at all :///
Gordon Ramsay: Cooks steak for a woman who was practically starving herself with a weird diet that cut out meat as she’d started working at a zoo that caused her to develop a gluten and dairy intolerance (shed only eat a baked potato or gluten free pasta with pesto and little else) who said she actually does enjoy meat but only if it was 100% organically and lovingly raised, goes through where and how the animal he’d gotten the meat from was raised with her, agrees that mass producing meat is a disgusting industry, raised two pigs himself in his back garden with love and care and cried when he had to send them to the slaughter house, calls chefs out on serving vegetarians things with meat products, is disgusted with frivolous shit like shark fin soup and any other food that involves senselelessly injuring or killing endangered animals for only a tiny bit of their meat
Gremlins: he couldn’t give a shit about vegetarians he hates them :///////
Gordon Ramsay: only screams, yells and swears at lazy, filthy, cheeky chefs who claim to be professionals with years of experience who can’t seem to follow the basic rules of hygiene/food preparation, is very gentle and encouraging with people who are still learning including children, is always ALWAYS respectful to wait staff (in the amy’s baking company episode when he learned that the owners were taking the tips of their one waiter he gave her his directly in front of them and also called them out on it in front of the customers too) and always starts off civilly until people give him shit
Gremlins: hes so over the top and verbally abusive ://///////////////////////// even top chefs can learn from their mistakes hes just a bully ://////
gordon ramsay is a good boy who did nothing wrong
I think these people need to watch clips of Kitchen Nightmares on Youtube.
The people he yells at often ripping off and sometimes even nearly poisoning customers.
There was one incident where bad lobster made someone so sick he had to call an Ambulance to the restaurant.
And never forget Amy’s Baking Company who was stealing tips from the waiters and waitresses
There was a hotel with the same thing going on.
Dude was running it into the ground so bad giving all his friends free rooms, food, and drink and couldn’t even pay his staff and because most of his business was comped for his buddies.
He was taking from the tip jar whenever he helped on the floor on top of it.
Gordan found out one group of his friends left hundreds of dollars that was supposed to be passed out to the staff as big tips and he downright pocketed it.
So basically, people who complain about Gordon Ramsey know jack shit about Gordon Ramsey
What about when he paid for the chefs needed at the Hotel Chester? He also paid six months rent on an apartment for the owners because they were doing their best, but the husband had some medical problem and they lost their house.
Gordon is just an all around great dude as long as you’re not doing something intentionally bad or are super cocky.
You decide to do an experiment one night. As you’re about to fall asleep, your hand slips off the side of the bed and dangles freely. You quietly wait until you feel what seems to be a hand slowly grab your arm. Instead of recoiling, tonight you decide to grab back.
You drag what turns out to be a hulk of a monster up on your bed. There were multiple eyes and arms. Black, silky hair every where and you spotted horns.
Their stunned state gave you the upper hand an you took it.
“I want answers. Shadow people, werewolves, closet monsters, the lot” you demand.
“What?” the monster, apparently male asked in a surprisingly normal deep voice.
“Are they real? Also, why’d you grab me” you insist. “Don’t play dumb with me buddy” you scoff doing your best tough cop impression.
He crossed his bulky arms and had an almost amused expression on his admittedly face interesting that you find oddly pleasant.
“That’s a tough question to answer” he said.
He even added a cocky little shrug and smirk, showing off some killer teeth.
You narrowed your eyes.
It sounded like you were being teased and you did NOT appreciate it.
It took a lot of courage to concur your childhood fears and try this. In fact, you used to be so scared that you slept with a mattress on the floor so nothing could grab you. Now that you were so close to the answers you so desperately sought, you weren’t about to be denied.
You crossed your arms and slapped on your own smirk to match the creature’s.
“Well then” you started and notice the beginning of disbelief settle on his face.
“I hope you like coffee because we’re in for a long night” you finish with sternly.
The creature smiles. Was it just your imagination or did he look excited?